To preface, I am in no way a doctor. This post is in no way a complete representation of all the types of birth controls out there. This is meant to be more of a springboard for healthy, independent women to discuss their stories and opinions on different types of birth control, and for us to share with each other what works for us. I am writing this because I do believe birth control, especially the most commonly used birth control pill, is a factor in the average woman’s health. I encourage you to read, respect the opinions of others you may see here, and to openly participate in discussion in the comments.
Also – to new readers/ readers only interested in the food – I will be back tonight with a full recap! And if you are a male or this doesn’t pertain to you, I apologize, but I do believe this is something that women shouldn’t be afraid to discuss.
Birth Control. Some women are passionate with their rave reviews of how birth control pills (BCP) have changed their lives for the better. Others can’t stop talking about how much they can’t stand those tiny little pills.
Women go on the pill for a variety of reasons. Most go on the pill for the most obvious reason – pregnancy prevention. And when used correctly, BCP is a highly effective contraception. There are many more uses and possible benefits though:
- Regulating periods (including shorter and reduced pain periods)
- Decreased risk of uterine infection and ovarian cancer
- Treat PMS mood swings
- Assist in clearing up mild to moderate acne
Sounds great, right? Unfortunately, there are a lot of side effects ranging from mild to very severe. Here are some:
- Sore or Swollen Breasts
- Headaches
- Nausea
- Decreased Libido
- Mood changes
- Small amount of blood or spotting between periods
- Weight Gain
- Blood Clots
- Heart Attack
- Stroke
Obviously there is a very wide range of pros and cons when it comes to birth control pills. And for as many varieties of BCPs out there, there are thousands of opinions. Here are some stories that some have offered to share.
My Candid Thoughts
I have experienced both the good and the bad of BCP. When I first started the pill, I started with Yaz. I loved it. I had always had very irregular and severe cycles, with severe PMS, headaches and more coming with my cycle. There were a few times that I’d have to cancel whatever was on my agenda because I could not get out of bed. Yaz enabled me to have a regular cycle, and it eased so many of the difficulties I had come to assosciate as “normal” with my cycle. (Plus, believe it or not, I lost weight AND noticed an increase in my breast size!)
However, soon after I got married I had to go on a different insurance. With higher (practically non-existent) co-pays, I could no longer afford Yaz after a few months. Thus began the cycle I’ve been stuck in for the past nine months. Since then (due to insurance, doctors, pharmacies, and BCP companies stopping production on different pills) I have been on seven different pills in nine months. It usually takes three months for your body to get used to and adjust to a new pill. No wonder I’ve had so many problems! And problems I’ve had. Nausea, severe stomach pain, irregular cycles again, mood swings, irritability, depression, decreased libido, irritation in my eyes/ contact lenses, severe headaches and perhaps one of the most frustrating to me – weight gain.
When you try so hard to lead such a healthy life, it is incredibly frustrating that despite working out nearly every day, despite eating healthy and balanced meals you keep gaining weight. This has undoubtedly been the most noticeable change throughout the past nine months. Plus, I can’t help but wonder – why are some so concerned about consuming hormone-free meat and dairy, but they don’t give a second thought to pumping hormones through their body on a daily basis? (Note to new readers: not myself, because I’m currently eating a vegan-based diet).
Meghann‘s Thoughts
First of all I HATE taking a pill everyday. I never remember it and I am even worse at remembering to reorder it once I finish the pack. A couple of years ago I discovered NuvaRing and I fell in love. Sure, you have to be really comfortable with yourself to insert it each month, but after that it’s a breeze. Its sort of a leave it and forget it philosophy. Of course then my insurance company started charging a standard of $50 on all prescriptions that did not have a generic alternative (urgghhhh!!) I could not afford to spend $50 a month on birth control, so I stocked up before the policy officially took place and then simply went off of birth control. It was a place in my life where I really didn’t need it anyways, so I didn’t see the point of taking it.
Well fast forward a few months and my period slowly fades away. It was really weak and then completely disappeared for 4 months. I was not with anyone during that time, so I didn’t think much of it. It was actually nice not having my period for a few months. I eventually did see a gyno who diagnosed me with Amenorrhea due to my intense, high mileage running. I thought it was only hard core athletes that would lose their periods, I guess this made me hard core? She made me go on the pill to resume my period if I was going to keep running as I did.
I went back on the pill. I felt bloated, icky and gained a few pounds. I also got my period back. During my marathon training my period was still really light and short, but it was there as long as I took the pill. If I didn’t take the pill there would also be the risk of calcium loss due to low levels of estrogen.
So there’s my story. I have to take the pill to keep my period, but I really do not like doing so. I miss my NuveRing, but until the price goes down, I just can not afford it.
Caitlin‘s Thoughts (note from Lindsey: I CRACKED UP when I read this direct quote!)
“Lots of hot sex. Never got pregnant. BC Rules.”
Ashley‘s Thoughts
My friends are usually shocked when I tell them on the seasonale birth control- it’s the one where you have your period only every 3 months.
My doctor recommended it after a routine pap smear was so painful I had tears streaming down my face and was apparently as white as the dressing paper. I have a history of uterine cysts that are EXTREMELY painful. All the ibuprofen, muscle relaxants and heating pads in the world couldn’t help me. I’m pretty sure I tried everything there was to try before going on birth control.Once I started birth control, the cysts formed much more slowly. Now I can actually function during my period, whereas before, I couldn’t. I’m talking extreme cramps, drops in blood pressure…I’ve passed out from my time of the month more times than I can count. The most embarassing time was before giving a presentation in my AP Environmental Science class my senior year of high school- but at least that time I had a built in excuse- nervousness! Not that anyone who knew me believed that….I was in the theatre productions and debate, haha.I still get PMS (general witch-yness, bloating, some cramps), but it’s a lot less severe. Would regular birth control probably have the same results? Yes, but I’ve gotten used to the convenience of only having a period, and only picking up a prescription, every 3 months. I’ve been on it since I was 20, so that is 5 years now!
I could talk about birth controls pros and cons for hours. I have been using it for about 3 years ever since my weight plummeted due to stress-depression-being away from home yada yada. Although to be honest I should have been on it earlier bc I’m so irregular and could never get my period naturally. I have always been between 17.5-18.5 bmi my whole life. It’s just my genes. I was/am very active (softball as a kid, swimteam in high school and now running) so flo just decided to never say “hello” regularly! Since being on Loestra 24 after being on a high estrogen BC pill, my period is now very light and I only experience cramps. I can honestly say that even though I’d love to have it au natural I don’t see that happening soon b/c of my history, genes and activity level. What is right for me, may not be right for others. So go by how your body feels. Unlike friends, I have never experienced side effects so I can’t hate it. Plus it makes sex safer (not that I engage in that often lol) but it’s just extra precaution.
There are many other types of birth controls out there. Anything from natural family planning to sterilization. Since there are many other well-written sources on BC, I am not going to write it all out here and I encourage everyone to check out a list of birth control methods.
Additionally, for the sake of empowering ourselves with knowledge and discussion, here are some articles all relating to birth control that you can check out (there are many more articles out there — these are just some of the best and/ or most recent that I’ve found, and also are articles I consulted when putting this together).
Birth Control Pills – Your Guide
Birth Control – Choosing a Birth Control Method
The Morning-After Pill is Birth Control Backup
3 Reasons Why Whitney Chose the IUD for Birth Control
IUDs are the Most Popular Reversible Birth Control in the World
I Ditched Acne and a Libido Problem by Switching Birth Control
I Ditched the Pill Because the Ring is Easier
Birth Control is Safer than Ever (and Sometimes It’s Even Good For You)
Pills, Rings, Patches, Shots: What’s New in Hormonal Birth Control
How to Deal with 7 of the Most Common Birth Control Side Effects
Be Aware of Rare but Serious Birth Control Side Effects
The Case Against Male Birth Control
Yaz Lawsuits and Yasmin Lawsuits
Yaz Blood Clot Lawsuit Filed in Illinois State Court
Yaz/ Yasmin birth control pills: Serial Killers?
Birth Control Pills Increase Risk of Lupus
Safest Birth Control, Medical Dangers
The Pills’ Versatility: Birth control mainstay aids cramps and may stem cancer
Common birth control pill causes abortion
Yasmin/ Yaz Birth Control Pill Linked to Gallbladder Problems
So what do you think? Where do you stand on BCP and BC in general? I know most women here are really looking to gain insight from others about what works and doesn’t work for them. I think we all hear about these different forms of birth control besides the standard 28-day pill, and I think we are all interested in first-hand experieneces (i.e. with IUDs, Seasonale, different specific drugs, etc.).
I won’t be posting again until later this evening, but I will be around in the comments today. I really hope that we can all keep things interesting, civilized, and bumpin’ in the comments. 
Please share your advice, thoughts, anecdotes, information, and experience. 
I have had some of the same problems as Meghann. I am so glad to read that someone else has too, but I don't want to go on BC. Ugh, I hate taking a pill, hormones, etc.
What a freakin' awesome post! I loved reading everyone's personal experience with birth control.
Whit – I know. I understand all the beneficial aspects of BC but I hate the idea of throwing added hormones into the mix of my healthy habits. :/
Ashley – yay, so glad you like it/ it's beneficial! I can't tell you how scared I was to put this up – so afraid there'd be a negative backlash (or a silent backlash LOL). Still nervous for all that personal info to be out there for the world to see, but I'm hoping it'll go away as the day goes on.
Caitlin, Your quote is soo funny.. I have a lot of the same problems as your Lindsay. I recently got a new job and I am havign issues with finding one that agrees with my body.. I often also forget to take it.. I use to on the patch and I loved it, but research shows it is not good for you… I wish there was a alternative…
Great post. I wrote about BC on one of my post awhile ago. I am so glad to see more people talk about it because it can be very confusing. I was BC for about 9 years… and just recently went off of it for good (boyfriend didn't like that). Though, it was my personal discussion I eat high raw vegan diet and could not stand putting more "junk" into my body when I am trying to get all that "junk" out of me! It has been about 3 months still going off of it and I do have some side affects. I got headaches, no period yet, and my face broke out. Though I am struggling with these conditions overall I am happy that I am off BC. I haven't noticed too much difference yet in my weight. It is a personal choice for everyone though.
Megan – There are some alternatives that I've seen/ heard of (i.e. the NuvaRing that Meghann talked about liking). There are also IUDs – I really want to know more about IUD. I know there are two kinds – a copper IUD (ParaGard) that doesn't contain any hormones (although some studies show it may have more risks) and a plastic IUD (Mirena) that releases small amounts of hormones.
Hi! I found this post through Caitlin's link on twitter.
My experience is similar to yours in that when I'm on the right pill, everything is perfect, but I've had to change to less than ideal pills and deal with the side effects.
Basically, when I first got on the pill they put me on Alesse, thinking that b/c I am petite and thin, I would react well to a low dose pill. It did not work out well at all. I went 3 months without having a period, then had a period that lasted for a month. I switched to ortho tri cyclen and had 9 years of bliss. Over the past year or so, my system started getting out of whack. My period was starting really early (like before I my pack ended for the month) and I was having problems with yeast infections. My Dr. said sometimes you get used to a pill and need to switch it up. They put me on Loestrin 24FE which cost $50 and gave me panic attacks. I then switched to Orthocyclen (all one dose instead of a triphasic) and I'm totally fine again. I just need a non-low dose pill.
In general I love being on the pill. My periods are very light, short and predictable, and I have almost no cramps- just a little irritability and hunger during my period. Plus, there's that whole not getting pregnant thing. Very convenient.
I can see how switching around so many times would be incredibly frustrating! I hope you find something that works for you!
Raleigh Twins – thank you for sharing! I've been really interested to learn what people do after they get off the pill, so it's informative to me.
(And I totally relate – I've recently switched to a vegan diet and I keep working on cleaning up my life as much as possible).
Shelly – thanks for stopping by! I think for me personally I need to try around a little bit more (lol AFTER I get better insurance in Oct. though).
I personally beleive that BC horomones are one of the WORST things we could be putting into our bodies. If u go onto pub med u can see all the serious thongs bcp can CAUSE, plus add that it's anabolic in terms of fatloss and it's just awful. That being said, I've been on bcp since soph yr of college (10 yrs) to regulate period and clear acne. I was on ortho tri cyclen a few yrs, the ortho tri lo, then Nuba ring (best thing ever but side effects weren't good for me) then yaz. Then for about 3 months this year I went completely off the pill to see how I felt. Hubby said I was more calm but my periods were not regular so every month I was convinced I was preggers cuz I was late, and worst of all, I was breaking out like I was in college again!!! So I went on Yasmin (cheap, similar to yaz) but my face never cleared up. I was getting ready to spend $150on differin gel to clear face when hubby pointed out that despite yaz' expense, it worked to clear my face. Good point! So I'm back on yaz and my face is much much better!!!!! I still hate putting these horomones into my body but my doc assured me that I'm healthy and things are good, especially since I plan to have kids in about 3 or 4 years.
I've been on two different types of BCP before, neither of which were taken for the official intend purpose of pregnancy prevention. I found out the hard way that I have rupturing hemorrhagic ovarian cysts, and the best way to stop them is to stop having periods (i.e. BCP being taken without the placebo week, just hormone pill after hormone pill).
Well, after being on the first pill for a little over a year I finally realized that my ever-increasing anger was because of the pill. I went to my OB-GYN and he was rude about it but put me on a different pill. Instead of being angry all the time with the second pill, all I would ever want to do was be alone and cry; I got so ridiculously depressed and was beginning to worry those around me.
Needless to say, I took myself off of that one after three months; being depressed and sad all the time when you know that's really not how you would feel otherwise kinda bites… okay it bites bigtime.
My sister just so happened to go on the same BCP that I was on my second go-round about two weeks before I took myself off. Her results were so bad (blood clots, minor stroke) that she ended up going to the ER and being referred to a hematologist. Only then did we find out that two genetic conditions we both have (MTHFR, porphyria) were two conditions that BCP producers never tested their drugs in, likely because they knew the result.
So unfortunately for me and my ovaries, I can never go on any form of BC again. That means more pain and a very increased risk of infertility, but it also means life. There are prices that we all have to pay in different ways, and this is mine. Adoption is always a viable option
I'm happy to hear that there are people who benefit from BC in many ways, though. It's nice to know that there are women out there who know the benefits of such inventions and aren't afraid to take advantage. IMO, it's better for us all that way.
I got on Yaz to regulate my cycle (I didn't have a period for a year!). Now, I'm regular, but (pardon my language) I'm bitchy for a week out of the month…and I cry, a lot. However, I tried at one point to stop taking it and the period went away and I broke out really really bad. So I have a love/hate relationship with the pill…
Great post! If you have any male readers, I would love to see their reactions…lol!
GREAT GREAT awesome post Linds
I am on Yaz too, just paid $75 for my last refill, ya…seriously. I didn't see another option, as I just moved and don't have an obgyn here, and I didn't want to screw my body up any more than it was already by going off the pill randomly. I will def have to switch to a generic, but it's so frustrating like u said, to be so health conscious and responsible…yet having to succumb to giving our bodies this artificial regulation. At this point, it's a necessary evil for me and sooo many of us, so I don't really know another option. Great post, it's nice to know I'm not alone
I never had a chance to email you but I hate BC. It gives me high blood pressure oddly enough. How annoying! I've been on Yaz awhile now and I actually like it this time. I haven't had a period in a long time though….
Like Meghann, I'm also on the NuvaRing and I totally love it. It's great to not have to take a pill every day, plus I like the idea that it's a lower dose of hormones that are slowly & constantly released into your body, instead of spiking yourself with hormones once a day from a pill. Since I've been on the NuvaRing, my periods have been WAY lighter, my cramps have all but disappeared. I know $40 a month for brand-name BC is insane, but to me it's totally worth it considering how good it makes me feel. I'd give up cable before I give up the NuvaRing.
Oh, and some of my friends think it's gross, but really it's not much different than putting in a tampon. No biggie. Just my two cents!
This is such an interesting discussion! I am one of those uber healthy people who never thought twice about putting hormones into my body every day when I took birth control. I was on it for 10 years, never missed a pill. And here I thought I was doing everything right!
I went off birth control earlier this year only to find out that I wasn't ovulating on my own. Now that I'm trying to get pregnant, that is a huge problem… one that is now requiring me to see an infertility specialist. Although I can't say that it was the birth control's fault, I do know that too many women do not stop and think about the effect that the little pill has on their entire bodies every day.
It's not a wonder my body doesn't know how to ovulate properly on its own since I had been training it not to for all of those years.
I think it's time for women to be educated about what goes on inside their bodies and choose natural birth control methods that work for them.
Check out my blog for my unfortunate experiences with surprise infertility following birth control!
First, I have to say that I HATE taking hormones. I don't like altering the natural chemistry of my body, and I just don't see many personal benefits in taking the pill besides prevention of an untimely pregnancy.
That said, I've had quite the saga with birth control. Since I'm a *little* older than most of the other commenters so far, I've been on the pill on and off for almost 15 years. Wow. 15 years. I've been on it consistently for the past 4 years with no break.
Almost 2 years ago, my BF almost broke up with me. I was psycho. Screaming, irate, crazy person psycho. We had a few episodes that I really wouldn't have expected him to stick around through. We had only been together for a few months at that point, and for all he knew I was just a crazy person.
What he didn't know is that about a year before I met him, I had changed birth control pills because the pill I was on for 2 years stopped working (started having irregular periods). I had already been on the new pill for a year, but I blamed my shotty moods on going through a divorce, major life changes, etc. Little did I know that my body was not agreeing to the new pill.
The pill I was taking is a tri-phasal pill, which means that throughout the month, there are 3 different levels of hormones that you take, leading up to the placebo week of your period. I would be fine during the placebo week (which is the opposite of most women, since that is technically the week of your period), but then after that all hell would break loose.
After a few psychotic episodes, I realized that this behavior was just not "me". I have never had a history of acting out like that at all. I went to my gyno and told her what was going on. She acted like she had heard my story a million times…it is apparently a very common thing for many women to not respond well to tri-phasal pills. She asked me why I didn't come to her sooner, and I told her that the last thing I ever thought was that birth control was going to make me a crazy woman.
She immediately switched me to a mono-phasal pill (Loestrin 24 fe), and within a month or two, I was feeling like myself again. The good (or bad) thing about this pill is that I never get my period. Many women on this pill have their period for 3-4 days each month, but sometimes, it causes a complete stop in periods. My doctor said that this is nothing to worry about.
Personally, I'm glad that I'll be able to go off of the pill in the next year or so (baby time)!
Sorry this is so long, but I think that a lot of women have this "psycho" affect from birth control without even knowing it. Many of my girlfriends have changed pills due to my experience, and it has made them feel much better.
Interesting post. I actually just went off the pill after reading some side affects that the long term artificial hormones can have on your body. I have also been having some stomach troubles that I think might be related. So now I'm exploring other forms of protection and seeing how it goes. Loved hearing about everyone else's experiences
Orthobtricyclin – made me vomit like crazy every month during the first week of pills
Alesse – perfect for years until bright red watery blood started pouring out of my body
Estrostep – hello weight gain.
Yaz – fantastic. Expensive but worth it.
Wonderful post and such an interesting discussion. I am so love/hate with my pill. I am on Yasmin (is it the same as Yaz?) and it has cleared my skin and regulated my cycle, but I have severe PMS and (can I write this in a comment?!) reduced libido..which kind of defeats the whole purpose of going on it to begin with!
really well thought and loved reading everyone's experiences! I forgot to sya that the pill I am on Loestra 24 means I only take 24 pills and then the other pills have iron and zinc I believe in them, so I get some vitamin action, as well as being protected from numerous things!
xoxo
Lo
This is so eye opening. Thanks everyone for contributing!
Lara @ Thinspired: haha it's ok for comments, we're all open here today.
I was on Yasmin for one month and I had the same side effects! Pointless, indeed. 
A reader named Joanna emailed me her comment, and I think it's another thing we can all learn from:
"I started nuvaring a few years ago. I was a mess. I used to get monthly migraines before and once I started I got at least 3 a week. I gained weight immediately and was a mess. My husband (boyfriend at the time) did not know what to do with me. I was miserable, crying all the time, and just mean. I went off and have not had a migraine since. It's been 3 years. Not one. I use a diaphragm bc with the migraines BC can cause stroke. I don't love the diaphragm bc spermicide can cause UTIs but I love not being pumped with hormones! Thanks for your post! You can share my insight if you want
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Amazing post! Thanks so much for getting this discussion out there! I have been on the BCP for a long time. The reason being that I have severe periods. If I am not on the pill, I throw up and have horrible cramps to the point that I can't go to school. So, I pretty much have to take them. I hate relying on something that much but I have been on them for 5 years and haven't had any problems at all. I guess I just got lucky the first time with finding the right one.
thank you for posting this. it's interesting how many women are on birth control, even when so many of us strive to lead natural lifestyles.
my periods became very irregular and then disappeared altogether a couple years ago due to disordered eating. eventually i saw my gynecologist, who prescribed the nuvaring. i hated it. i felt like an insane, emotional wreck, and i had bouts of zero appetite followed by intense, ravenous hunger. for someone trying to normalize her eating, it was a disaster.
i haven't gone on a pill since going off that – my sister ended up in the hospital with a blood clot in her lung due to birth control, and i'm just not comfortable putting myself at that kind of risk, though that is against my doctor's recommendation. on top of the side effects, i really believe birth control just covers up amenorrhea. i'd rather solve the problem now, in a natural way, than cover it up and be devastated to find out i'm not ovulating and can't get pregnant in ten years. and in terms of contraception, for me at least, there are other ways.
really interesting discussion – thanks for bringing this up!
I started taking Yasmin to regulate my periods about 5 years ago. I noticed a decrease in appetite and dramatic weight loss that resulted in abou 30 plus pounds dropped in a few months. I also had sever headaches. The most embarassing side effect was the extreme hair loss I experienced and still trying to recover from. I lost all my hair at my temples and now cannot wear my hair up. I stopped taking it about a year ago after seeing this and have not had my period since then. My hair loss is still there despite trying everything to grow my hair back. Still waiting for my period too! I'm not sure what long-term effects this will have on me because I took the pill for so long!
Hey- new reader here
I like this post. I'm a jerk when it comes to BC and always forget to get a new pack after the month is up. Because of this I'm always on and off with it. When I am on it though, my boobs are definitely a half cup size bigger (still not big by any means haha) and yeah my period is more regular.
I do appreciate the boob increase. And need to get back on it as I've just started dating someone again. This might be TMI?
Thanks for the post! Interesting to see everyone's perspective.
-Mel
hmm… I am just kind of a fan of BABY ROULETTE. take a chance, life is too short.
I am only sort of kidding.
I feel like taking the pill for years must have adverse effects on us, even if we don't know it (what long term studies have been done? The pill hasn't been around that long), and that makes me nervous.
I just have to jump in here as I'm a nurse practitioner who works in women's health and deals with birth control management all day long. Just want to urge those of you who hate the pill but also hate the idea of an unwanted pregnancy to look into other options as well. In addition to pills there are also: NuvaRing (overpriced, yes), the Patch (it is still used and still available), Depo-Provera (people often talk about horror stories but so many women LOVE this method), Implanon (progesterone only implant, good for three years), and IUDs (Mirena and Paragard). It's great to explore your options as many women have a hard time taking a daily pill and may feel better with a method that has a lower systemic hormone dose (like and IUD). Just my two cents.
Hi there.
I've never commented here before, but I just wanted to say that after years of BCPs and the horrors associated with the hormones, I got a paraguard copper IUD about 18 months ago. Besides a little bit, ok a lot(!) of discomfort the day of insertion, I haven't had to think about BC in a long time. I opted for the non hormonal IUD and couldn't be happier. I'm in my early 30s and done having children, so this 10 year IUD has been a great choice for me.
Just thought I'd add my two cents.
I have been on MANY different kinds of BCP's. For the last 10 months, I was on Yaz. I didn't really realize it at the time, but it made me VERY irritable and depressed. My face also broke out horribly. I didn't like how my periods were either non-existent or VERY light. It just didn't feel natural.
I just switched to Yasmin, and it is a WORLD better. Literally, I am only on my first month and my face has completely cleared up, my period is normal, and I feel happy and bubbly again!!
For some reason, I do better with higher estrogen BCP's. I always fear they will make me gain weight, but I am actually borderline normal weight/underweight so it is okay if I gain a couple pounds!
Interesting topic!!!
Maggie K – thank you so much for commenting! Your information is really welcome and helpful, and has definitely given me personally other ideas of things to look into.
Alison – thanks for commenting! I'm going to try to get in touch with you, because I have a few more specific questions re: IUDs.
ohhh…BCP. They are my saviors.
I started mine after developing my eating disorder in order to get my period back, but it was a life saver as when i had my period before, it was in so much pain that i was crumbled/balled up in bed for two days with so many hot packs you couldn't count them.
Ever since them, I have very little pain, very regular and light periods, no big mood swings and it has helped me stay the same weight for about 5 years.
i like this post! thanks for making it! learned a lot!
and caitlin: you crazy woman! LOL
I dont usually comment, but its great to hear that other people have been on the same conclusions. I would have to say that my experience is much like Lo- irregular periods from being in sports year round. I have been on 5 different pills in the past year trying to find one that works. I kept asking my doctor, "are you sure this is ok with my body?". I can totally attest to the manic depressive states with high estrogen pills, and the decreased libido and no period with lo-esterin (basically you are like a man). Currently yasmin seems like it is working well, however I still question the effects that pills have on your body over time. Suprisingly, my boyfriend even wants me to go off them because he doesnt think putting hormones in your body is good for you- which is ironic because I am the one trying to get him to live a healthier lifestyle…just me two cents..
I hesitated for a long time about birth control pills, but decided to give it a try since painful periods were disrupting my life. Yikes; the side effects/depression/decreased immunity/horrendous periods/vomiting/weight gain/etc were VERY disruptive. I tried a few different pills and doctors assured me I'd just need to give it 6 months to a year and I'd surely find the right pill. Very frustrating since I felt like my life was being ruined in the meantime! However, I do seem to be in the minority in terms of side effects, but it IS important for women to understand that the pill is not necessarily a free ride (uhhh awkward; no pun intended).
I then learned about the Fertility Awareness Method (FAM) which is -not- to be confused with the 'rhythm method'. FAM monitors ovulation based on, yes, 'cervical fluid', position of the cervix, and body temperature. What is more, it has a 99% effectiveness rating (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fertility_Awareness_Method).
Yes, it does take responsibility and commitment to check all these things every day. Also; if I weren't in a committed relationship (I'm married), I might not be as comfortable using this method (I am OK with getting pregnant). And I don't -only- use this method…But beyond a mere method for BC, FAM stresses a woman get to know her body. How many women know when they are ovulating? About to ovulate? What their cervical fluid tells them about their cycle? Can look back at months of charts to notice any similarities/irregularities? Our bodies actually give us a lot of information and clues as to what is going on and why we might feel the way we do. The hard part is interpreting it!
Certainly each person has to make the right decision for themselves based on their body's needs and their personal needs. I think it is worth discussing this though; especially within the health food community where we spend all kinds of time and money trying to consume -fewer- chemicals. Thanks!
Just a clarification – Natural Family Planning is not birth control! It teaches abstinance on days that you are likely to become pregnant, but you are in no way preventing the conception of a child as you are with condoms or hormonal BCP.
I'm sad to hear all the negitive affects so many women have becuase they think BCP is their only choice. I urge any of you who want to lead a truely healthy life that is hormone free to check out the Creighton Model for Fertility Care or the Couple to Couple league. It's amazing what you learn about your body and how to care for your fertility naturally.
Just another 1st time commenter's two cents.
I've been wanting to do a BC post for a while – recently Erin and I got emails from a few of our readers asking about the Pill.
I just ended my relationship with the Pill after 10 years. For 9 years (that seems to be the magic expiration date for us!) it was great – NO side effects except for bigger boobs. Nice. But, last year, the Pill started making me all whack to the point where I could not physically get myself to swallow them knowing what the next three weeks would be like.
Now I'm married, 30 and sheepishly buying condoms at Target until I figure out what I want to do. I'm considering an IUD, but I don't think long term birth control is right for me at my age.
Thanks for writing about this – I know many girls will find this beneficial!
I hopped over from Megann and wanted to throw my thoughts in!
I've been on BCP for a couple years now, started it b/c of my acne and the fact my periods were so heavy, I could barely function (like bleeding through a super plus tampon and pad in less than 2 hours). Then a year ago I was diagnosed with exteremly high blood pressure and was forced to stop. When I started BCP I was single and not having sex. When I was forced to stop, I was married and not wanting a family.
So my Dr suggested an IUD. I thought it sounded great and my insurance would cover it, perfect!!! I set up an appointment with a gyno and went to have it inserted, but they couldn't do it. My cervix was too tight and no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't get it inserted. This was EXTREMELY painful, I was sweating, crying and shaking and experianced really bad cramping afterwards, even though it wasn't even inserted.
Now my blood pressure is back under control and I'm back on BCP. I've found that at first my libido was shot and I had a ton of bloating, but a couple months later I'm back to my normal self!
I used to take triphasic Ortho up until 4 years ago. Around that time I started getting bad headaches and ONCE had a migraine with an aura (where you see flashing lights, etc. before the headache starts). Every OB/Gyn I went to said that if you have migraine w/ aura you simply cannot risk being on estrogen-based BCPs (due to increased risk of stroke in migraines w/ aura + clotting risk of estrogen pills).
So I was basically forced to switch to Progestin only pills (aka the Mini Pill, brand name Errin). These pills don't work for everyone. First, you have to take it at the exact same time each day. I mean, 30 minutes off can reduce the pregnancy protection from 97% to 80%! Also some people have irregular periods with this type of pill. Some people, so called Progestin-sensitive people, actually never get a period at all. This is me! Its awesome because I'm a runner and hate getting my period (and have bad cramps usually). The downside…I would never know if I was pregnant! The first year I was on it I was super paranoid and invested in a Sam's Club box of preg tests and took one every month, haha. Since then I've chilled out. I am dead on about taking that damn pill at 5:30pm each day. In fact, I can usually sense that its 5:30 before my cell phone alarm even goes off.
So in short, progestin only pills have worked for me. They are cheap (generic available) and don't increase my risk of stroke. I have not had any weight gain, acne or breast shrinkage (thank god, they are already small enough!). My one complaint is decreased libido. I've found ways around that though
This post comes had a great time! Just these past few weeks I've been noticing that my mood has been unstable. I thought maybe it was because I just went back to school and am long distance with my boyfriend again.. thought I was just being emotional. But then I realized my mood swings came at night after taking Yaz. I scared myself a few times.. I even PUNCHED A WALL out of anger! I've never been that angry and it wasn't even for a good reason. I cry over everything and am extremely irritable. I cried yesterday because my pilates class didn't go the way I wanted it to…(I know.. its weird). Plus i've intensely irritable. I've been on Yaz 3 years and never experienced anything quite this intense. It was affecting my relationships in a bad way.
I decided to switch to Loestrin 24. I'm still on Yaz now because I don't want to stop it until I get my period so I can start Loestrin on a fresh cycle.. but now that I know it is Yaz making me nuts I just take deep breaths and tell myself "it's not you.. it's not you.. it's hormones." I really thought I was losing it.
I would love to not take birth control but I really don't see other methods that would work for me.. so hopefully Loestrin 24 will bring me back to normal self! It is a lower dose of estrogen so I'm reallllllly hoping!!!
Thanks for posting this! It helps hearing other people's experiences!
Wonderful post — I HATE taking birth control, but the pregnancy stress, mood swings, and cramps are not worth it . . . I wish there was a pill for guys to take!!! I worry sometimes that in 10 years research will show that the pill causes huge long-term health risks…
Can I just say that condoms are where it's at? Getting off "the pill" was the best thing I've ever done for myself. I followed my instincts, and within 2 weeks got my old body back and a much better sex life. Surprisingly, sex doesn't hurt when you can actually get turned on because your libido is nonexistent. Who would have thought?! (Now I'm just being sarcastic…)
As someone who studies public health, I have read a lot about contraceptive methods and have even considered working at Planned Parenthood or as a sex educator. I personally did not feel right about pumping hormones into my body, but even I have to admit that the safety studies have been fairly consistent, which is a good indicator that they are safe like the FDA says (at least in the areas that have been studied.) BCPs have been associated with a lot of positive things, and educating the public about birth control in general is one of the best public health techniques out there. But like most drugs which have been approved by the FDA, individuals react to them differently, and side effects need to be weighed and evaluated. If the method you are using interfere with your quality of life too much, there is probably a much better method out there for you.
Just my two cents.
Thanks for posting this! It was really interesting to hear everyone's experiences. I've got to say, Caitlin's made me crack up!
I am also a fan of the FAM method and think all women should read "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler.
This book explains the FAM method, but more importantly educates women about their bodies – a lot of stuff you never learn in Sex Ed!
Also, this book can help couples get pregnant when they're ready for that step.
I tried Yasmin and Yaz, but still experienced side effects. I felt better after going off the pill, but it took 6 months for my period to return. The only thing that I have noticed…is I am experiencing a little more in terms of breakouts, but nothing horrible.
I also hopped over from Meghann's blog and really enjoyed this post. I have not had any problems being on the pill (Yasmin) other than the high cost with no insurance.
The alternative I have found to pay monthly is using canadapharmacy.com where I can get 3 months of Yasmin at a time for 65$ which is much preferred to 50$/month!
(I know the idea of using a website might seem sketchy, but it's really not. My Dr. checked into as well & gave me the okay and I have never had anything even close to resembling a 'pregnancy scare' or side effects or anything)
The site is worth looking into for those like me who don't have insurance, but are not willing to go generic on something important that you know works. I even buy my dog's flea medication from them, lol. (God, this sounds like an advertisement, it's not, haha.)
I never thought I'd be a Natural Family Planning kind of a girl, but it has changed my life. I wanted to get on BC before the husband and I got married (we waited until we were married to have sex). After doing some research, I realized how terrible BC can be for women. I adopted the Natural Family Planning method. I know that there are many people who don't think it works, but I can tell you that the husband and I are trying to postpone pregnancy, and it has been working since we got married. NFP gives us such a bond, and I wouldn't want it any other way. If you are interested in exploring it, please send me an e-mail.
Great post Lindsey! It's so uplifting to hear everyone's comments; however, I see the overall pattern here being, every woman's body is completely different and we must just do what is best for ourselves.
Thanks for sharing this topic and your personal experience.
I came over from Meghann's blog – first time reader!
I think my biggest problem with bcp's (looking back) is that it was the only option my Dr. presented to me. Of course I remember vaguely learning about the others in health class, but it was breezed over so quickly I don't think any of us really paid attention as 15 year olds.
I spent 7 years on bcp's and recently went off because the side effects were just getting tiresome. I feel like my old self again, finally. I was planning on going off for a while, but a close friend spent a week in the hospital with blood clots from hormonal birth control, and seeing what she went through and the thought of losing a friend was just too much.
I also recommend the book "Taking Charge of you Fertility" even if you don't plan on using the FAM method, it is a great source of knowledge about the female body. I think it should be required rading for every woman!
In re: to what to do after the pill, I starting taking my temperature and charting a la FAM, but don't rely on it solely for BC. It's great to know what is going on with my body by simply paying close attention to what its telling me.
Great post!
Great post! I came across it through Meghann's Friday Follow.
I love hearing other's stories on BC. I've tried Triphasil and Ortho Tricyclen and found that some made me overly emotional. I'm now on Loestrin 24 and I love it. No bad side effects at all.
great post!
Terrific post, and very timely for me. I just started on Alesse in March and the whole time haven't been too sure of it. My period is just different- times, color, consistency (well, aren't we all best friends now) to the point I was so worried I thought I was pregnant. I would sit at home, 'googling' my suspected pregnancy and be horrified- I am NOT at the point in my life where a baby would be a good idea.
It is great to hear that everyone else has their share of BCP woes. I don't mean great to have to deal with, but rather, great to know I am not alone. I think sex and contraception can be considered very "taboo" and doesn't get the attention and education it deserves. Which leads to me with a deer in the headlights look, scrolling through stories of "I didn't know I was pregnant" online. Sheesh!
I wish I had a better relationship with a doctor (I don't really have a doctor- in Toronto, Canada, doctors are in high demand! I go through a clinic to get my BCP) so that I could go in and fix my issues with BCP. It is a relief to know I am protecting myself, but I could do without the blemished skin, wacko periods, and undue stress.
Thank you to everyone for their honesty!
VERY interesting! i actually just went off the pill in may (for a few years) for the first time in years (over 10), and i haven't had my period since… i ahven't talked about it to my gyno (need a new one b/c i moved), but now i think i should…
Such an interesting post!
I'm really passionate about birth control and menstruation. Sooo many healthy women don't give a thought to this aspect of their life.
I DO NOT take birth control, because I am no comfortable with the hormonal impact. It is so unnatural and hasn't been around long enough to know any long term effects of it. Yes, sometims my period is annoying, but I'd rather have it naturally.
Over time of having your period naturally, it gets better. And it's the way your body is intended to work. You don't really have a period on the pill. It's sort of a fake period, so it doesn't solve any problems.
I really encourage AlL women to get comfortable with themselves and seriously think about other options that don't include sticking hormones and pesticides in their bodies (tampons).
lunapads.com is a great site to learn about alternatives.
Pull and pray right?? I kid I kid. I've been on both sides of the BC coin. Some have made me miserable and some were fine. I know people who have been on it for like 10 years straight and to me that seems pretty crazy! I don't like screwing with my body too much…I do want to get pregnant at some point!
ooooo look at all the responses!! this is such a hot topic..
me personally? I took Yaz, and I messed up for about a week (I was off from work and didnt take it at the same time everyday) and bam- i was pregnant. i ended up mis-carrying and my doc stuck me back on BC- this time on Yasmin – every single BC pill i've been on has done the same thing, i turn into a horrible emotional mess and my boobs get really huge (I wear a 32DD so i dont need much help in this department!!) and i feel puffy and bloated all the time.
My doc just said I am super hormone sensitive and just shouldnt be on it. He recommended the copper IUD- but it can make periods longer and heavier- mine comes on the 1st of the month (my body has a calender inside of it- no matter what day of the week it is.. its the 1st) and only lasts 4 days. day 1 is heavy days, 2,3,4 are super light- so im not sure the copper IUD would work!
for us- diaphram is the way to go baby. that and im seconding Therese when I say… pull and pray (way too much tmi.. but hey .. you're the one who asked! lol)
It's funny that you write this now because I have been thinking hard about this topic for a few months. I actually hate taking my BCP. I have been researching other methods that might work better for me including nuvaring and IUD's. Thank you for all the links I will definitely be checking them out for more information. I have to agree with you about all the hormones we are pumping into our bodies. It's not right but having a kid at 22 isn't right for me either.
Kelly – you and I are 100% on the same page. I have some extra info on IUDs that I've had emailed to me today that I can send you if you want.
I'm really glad you posted this. It's such an important topic. Like I said yesterday, I regard birth control as a necessary evil, as many people seem to. I really hope it doesn't mess with my fertility though!
This may be TMI for some.
I have had quite the roller coaster ride with birth control pills. I started when I was 18 on Alesse because my period was extremely irregular, and when I did have it, it was very heavy and had really bad cramps. I stayed on Alesse for a couple of years, then I tried the Depo shot. That caused me to have my period nonstop.
After the three months were over, I went back on Alesse, but it didn't stop my period. Three months later, I went on Ortho Novum. I stayed on the Ortho until I was 26.
At that point, I had switched doctors and went to her with complaints of very bad PMS symptoms. I had horrible mood swings, very heavy periods, bad cramps, extreme bloating. You name it, I had it. She tried a couple different pills (Seasonique, Ortho Tri Cyclen, and one other that I can't remember). My symptoms did not ease up and she decided to see if anything else was going on.
At that point, two years ago, I was diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrom (PCOS). Over the last two years, I was off birth control pills, but I had no period unless it was induced with progesterone. That lasted until June, when I started my period and it didn't stop until 4 weeks ago, when I began Yaz by taking 6 pills in one day (boy, was I sick!) and tapering down from that. Now the Yaz is working, but I'm not sure if it will continue to work over the long haul with my hormone fluctuations.
For me, the birth control pills all those years had been hiding the symptoms of my PCOS, which is kind of scary, but for now, it's the only thing creating some kind of control over my PCOS symptoms. I guess they have been both a blessing and a curse for me, and ironically, I haven't ever needed them for actual birth control.
First time commenter… also found my way over from Meghann's blog. I'm currently a PA student and an advocate for hormonal birth control. I know that alot of people don't like messing with their body's natural chemistry, but using hormonal birth control can actually be very beneficial (aside from previous mentioned reasons). Our bodies are designed for pregnancy… and actually the more time that a woman is NOT pregnant increases her risk for things such as endometriosis, fibroids, and cervical cancer. By "tricking" our bodies into thinking that they are pregnant, we can reduce these risks… just as ACTUAL pregnancies reduce the risk.
Like many others, I am not good at remembering to take a pill. So, when I went on birth control I asked my OBGYN about Depo-Provera. She said that I was a great candidate, so I gave it a shot (no pun intended). I absolutely LOVE IT. Aside from a little spotting the first few months, I have not had a period since I began Depo. I know that that freaks some people out, but I love it. I love not having to buy tampons or worry about leaks and I love that I don't have to deal with PMS symptoms anymore. I use to have horrible cramps that would put me out of commission for a couple days every month. No longer. And since Depo comes in a generic form, I only pay $10 every 3 months.
Hope this is helpful info for someone out there.
Great discussion topic!
You have hit quite a hot topic my friend. I think the pill stinks, I never remembered to take it properly and the hormone dips made me sick. I've done depo provera but you cannot stay on that for too long. I've done nuva ring as well, which was my favourite. A few years ago I went off of birth control all together (whenever I say that people are like WHAT – are you and Brad trying to have a baby, no we are definitely not).
Thank you for such an informative post!
And for the included humor!
Awesome insight and varying experiences!
Wow…What a great topic to discuss. This is something I have asked my doctor about many times because I don't really feel comfortable on the pill anymore either. I started on the pill about 8 years ago, and have probably changed about every 2 years. In some ways I'm afraid to go off the pill, but at the same time I feel like it can help me in the end. This topic coming up in this blog will definitely make me think about my feelings on the pill all over again. Thanks so much for bringing up this great topic.
Great post! I really enjoyed reading everyone's comments!
Hey! I found you via Meghann's blog — great post!
I'm in your same situation, currently. I was on one pill (ortho-tri cyclen) for ages, but it wasn't preventing my migraines so I asked to switch. In 8 months I've been on 5 pills (ortho tri cyclen low, yaz, yasmin, loestrin24fe and finally, olessa). This is misery. I am constantly going through the 'adjustments' to the new pills! I'm trying one more (the one i'm currently on) and then DH and I decided we're going to try natural family planning with condoms/abstinence during fertile phases.
He wants a baby in the next year or so, so I need to be off the pills anyway. I'm REALLY hoping I'm happy off of them…I originally went on them due to terrible periods…I'd miss 2-3 days of work/school because I couldn't get out of bed.
Honestly, if the natural planning doesn't work out, I'm not sure what my step is. I'd prefer to avoid IUDs, and the Nuvaring is definately not for me.
Why haven't they made a pill for men yet?! LOL
This is a great post. And very ironic with the timing of it…I have been having (minor)headaches for the past three weeks and with my roommates urging me, I finally went in to see a neurologist. It turns out I have a blood clot on my brain. And my doctor (among others) are 100% convinced that it is caused by birth control. I'm ok, I couldn't have gone in at a more perfect time…the doc said I was basically a walking time bomb but they know exactly where it is and the steps to treat it. This isn't something that happens to everyone but it's definitely not uncommon. Be careful! And do your research…and don't take anything (even a small headache) lightly, you never know what it could turn into! Thanks so much for the informative post…it hit really close to home.
Great discussion! Personally I refuse to go on birth control. It sounds so convenient in theory, but then I think about the corruption within the FDA, and breast cancer rates in this country, and all of those synthetic hormones, and frankly, for me it's just not worth the risk (especially since I've never had painful periods.) For the 3 months I tried it in college, I was so sick I could barely sit through class. I'm definitely in the minority with this opinion, though.
I've had good experiences (never got pregnant) and bad experiences (breakthrough bleeding, disrupted cycle) with bc, but I don't understand the objection to the hormones that go along with bc pills. BC prevents ovulation. When she is ovulating(meaning when a woman is not on bc), a woman is still exposed to high estrogen levels. It's a question of whether you want to be exposed to estrogen produced by your own ovaries or by synthetically made estrogen. However, I do remember for undergrad bio (five years ago!) that a high exposure to estrogen over a woman's lifetime is a risk factor for ovarian and uterine cancers. Factors such as late menarche, early menopause, pregnancy, breastfeeding and bc pills- namely factors that inhibit ovulation- are believed to be protective factors against reproductive risk factors.
When I first started on BC a few years ago I went on Yaz and it was AWFUL. I felt crazy. I felt like I was floating above myself and had no control over anything. I could feel tidal waves of emotions hit me and have no control over it. My poor roommates. LOL. I went off it after 3 months and was switched to LoEstrin 24 which was a dream pill for me. I didn't get my period for 2-3 years. And I didn't feel emotionally weird at all. Earlier this year my migraines (which I've always had, but not often) became more frequent. And by frequent I mean 3-4 per week each lasting about 24 hours. I couldn't get anything done. After trying all the normal things like quitting wine, dairy, etc, I ran out of my BC prescription and just got lazy about getting it updated. And after a month I realized I hadn't had one migraine since I went off LoEstrin 24. Magic. My migraines were estrogen triggered. Crazy. Now, after 6 months of being BC free I'm back on it. My new OB (who is the best I've ever had) actually listened to me when I told her I got bad migraines on LoEstrin and put me on a generic BC that is a POP pill (progestrin only pill). It's my first week on it and so far I am still migraine free (yes!) but I don't really like being on BC. I don't like feeling like I'm messing with my fertility but honestly, sex with condoms all the time kinda sucks and I'm sick of it. I just feel like it's so much more intimate without them and while I am soooo excited to have a baby with Nate, if we can wait a bit longer, we'd like to. But, for the first time EVER in my life, if I did get pregnant, it wouldn't be a bad thing so that relieves a bit of the pressure. It's a good place to be.
To add on to mine. I was put on the POP pill because I have always gotten migraines with auras (blurred visions, seeing flashing lights or twinkling lights) and it's dangerous for people with that condition to be on estrogen pills (thanks a lot crappy doctors who never listened to me in the past).
I'm a little nervous to see how this pill affects my libido and periods. I've noticed in the last week I've had zero sex drive (no good because Nate has like sex drive on overdrive) but I'm hoping things will level out. We'll see.
I am so glad I found this post. Just last week I had my yearly. Ever since I was in 8th grade at the age of 13 I have been on birth control. My periods would last around ten days and be very thick and heavy. The pain was horrible and they said this would fix it. Last year around this time I switched to YAZ and I actually hated it. I was extra moody, I felt I was never in focus and my periods never changed so I went back. My periods to this day still enable me to do many things during that week. I suffer from severe back pain, front pain, migranes, and HORRIBLE PMS ( I am a total Bitch). I started taking a different BC on Wed. that is supposed to help me with these symptoms. I pray that it does help because no women should have to suffer and become phyiscally and mentally handicap because of their monthly cycle.
Kim– I'm with you on that…I'd prefer to keep my body free of synthetic hormones. And who knows the long-term effects of BC…
Saw this link on Meghann's blog and had to come join the conversation! As a nurse-to-be, I'm glad we're all trying to inform and educate ourselves about this!
I am also a NuvaRing user and LOVE IT! I don't have to worry about a pill every day, my periods last 2 days at the most, my PMS is much better and I haven't had a lot of the side effects I had with the pill because it's a constant low level of hormones circulating right where they need to be, instead of having to be absorbed and metabolized through my whole body. It is more expensive than the pill, but it's totally worth it.
My doctor has suggested the IUD as well but the insertion is much more uncomfortable if you've never had children. My friends who have an IUD said having it put in was crazy painful, but that it's worth it now. Just make sure they don't cut the strings too short so you can confirm it's in the right place.
I think BC pills are a fantastic option and every woman ought to be able to consider them (i.e., they should be affordable). But they are not for me personally. Just as you mentioned in your post, it's the thought of regularly pumping hormones into my body that scares me. Too many side effects!
Wow, what a GREAT discussion. Thanks for posting about this topic, I've gotten a lot out of hearing what everyone has to say!!!
Wow, I love that we are all sharing our stories and so many of them overlap! Here's mine:
I've actually been on BCP since I was ten years old. I started my period when I was nine for reasons unbeknownst to me, my family and my gyno since the rest of the women in my family were all "late bloomers." I never got a regular period which wasn't really a problem in my opinion at the time, but when I did get my period it would be for a month to a month at a time! I would get anemic and worst of all I was overly emotional All. THE. TIME. it was awful, and all that on top of being the only girl in the 4th grade with tampons in her backpack.
I had been on Kavara (the generic of Mircette) which is a midlevel steady dose style pill for years with no side effects until last spring. I was living in a new city and switched gyno's to stay with my insurance and while the Doctor was great she really pushed LoEstra24 and switched me to it. I gained weight, was nauseous and had the worst back spasms ever (and I'm typically not a big cramper). I called her after doing a three month trail and begged the nurse to switch me back and am now happily back with my Kavara.
I have never really considered the effects of adding the hormones to my body since I started BCP for medical reasons but I think it is important to consider them, so thank you to everyone who posted and opened my eyes tonight.
I am interested in the IUD's since my mum has had success with them, and am going to discuss them with my Doctor at my next visit. I know some of them want to you have had a baby, which isn't me so we'll see.
Great topic Linds!
I came here from Meghann's blog, and thought I would post my BC and IUD experiences for anyone who's interested.
I started with Ortho-Tri-Cyclen in college….was on it for about 5 years before realizing that it was making me crazy – lots of crying and anger. I switched to Yasmin and I had better control of my emotions, but zero sex-drive and after about three years started experiencing break-through bleeding. I then switched to NuvaRing (about the same time I started thinking about stopping taking any hormones – it was pretty much my last try with HBC's). The NuvaRing was fine….but still didn't help with the libido problem. So I decided to get a copper IUD (Paraguard). It wasn't covered by insurance, but I decided that given what I was paying for BC anyway ($40-$50.month) it would pay for itself in a couple of years. I had it put in just under a year ago.
Since I have not had children, insertion was insanely painful (like a REALLY long, REALLY bad menstrual cramp). My periods are pretty heavy, and last a full week (very heavy on second day with a fair amount of cramping, heavy for several days, then slowly taper to nothing). I have had some problems with breaking out every month, but that finally seems to be getting under control (it seemed pretty bad at first – or maybe I was just used to never having any because of the hormones).
But best of all, I feel like a different person. I'm happier. I don't get angry or upset as easily. I can have an emotional/heated conversation with my husband without crying. And most importantly (for both myself and my marriage), I have an interest in sex again
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So for me, it's all been worth it. And it's good for 10 years if I choose to keep it that long, or can have it removed (not really looking forward to that to be honest) if we decide we might like to start thinking about maybe having kids someday.
Sorry for the long comment. I noticed there weren't many experiences with IUDs posted, so I thought I'd share my thoughts…
I have had all the same issues as everyone else (hate hormones, mood swings, crying, etc.) until about a month ago. I have 3 letters for everyone…..IUD!!! I have the IUD with a small amount of hormone that lasts for up to 5 years. You can get another one that is copper with no hormones that lasts up to 10 years. It is painful to get inserted and cramping occurs for the first week or so but then…. FREEDOM! It is amazing and I am telling everyone I know to look into this. It is quite expensive if your insurance doesn't cover it, but might be cost-effective when comparing to the monthly pill if you are paying out of pocket for that.
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